Ethan & Mel [Part 1 of 2]: Crossed Boundaries, A Break-Up & A Situationship
Update: 2025-11-06
Description
Ethan and Mel's relationship could be described as an on-again off-again situationship. Now, they are trying to decide if they should be on-again. But first, they have to understand how they got here to begin with. In this session, Sarah helps them to understand how their very different backgrounds and family systems have created two very different ideas about boundaries, trust and forgiveness.
Can Ethan and Mel move on from their rocky beginnings and create the healthy relationship that they want?
Listen to Part 2 of Ethan & Mel's sessions here.
Resources (Australia-only)
- 1800RESPECT: The national domestic, family, and sexual violence counselling, information, and support service.
- Beyond Blue: For support with anxiety, depression, and suicide prevention.
- Lifeline Australia: For 24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention services.
- Motivated Minds: Learn more about host Sarah Bays’ practice.
- Relationships Australia: A leading provider of relationship support services for individuals, families, and communities.
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- Audio production: Thom Lion and Jacob Round
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